Wednesday 25 September 2013

The kinky journey of life.

I spent a pleasant few days recently in the company of another Mistress. We shared our experiences of kinky slaves, pets and property. Our journey to become Dominatrix was via different paths and what featured clearly was our intention to be who WE ARE.
Not to follow some grey median set by society.
In considering my new sissy I see a person who has many roles in life and the task of integrating all of them including the desires of hir heart is an interesting and sometimes taxing task.
It's confusing being several different people - we are taught that we should be ONE person... however few people are simply one thing. Most people contain within themselves contradictions, direct oppositions, clashes and desires which are repellant at times and magnetically attractive at other times.
Each person has a different journey. Some people find fulfilment of their dreams and fantasies, others find exploring themselves a nightmare and fall prey to substances.
Some prefer to keep their real needs hidden, others are happy to play publicly and allow their friends and family to accept or reject them.
When people reject you it is actually a good thing - someone who will reject you for your personal choices which you aren't imposing on them is a person you don't need in your life.
As a man with dreadlocks once said to me - My dreads keep the kind of people away from me whom I wouldn't like anyway. 
How is your journey going? Are you always going to be an online poseur or will you have the guts to try out your dreams in real time and real life?
Will you try once and run away or keep on seeking that magical beloved - the right person/people for you?
Enjoy the journey - you will be richer at the end.