Saturday 24 June 2017

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Monday 19 June 2017

Fake vs Real, One website vs another


Collarspace vs Fetlife: Some people say one is better than the other.
I'm not sure why this would be since the sites in theory would attract similar kinds of people.
I do like the attitude of the Fetlife webslaves though, friendly and fun in their default messages. Also they allow professionals to have professional profiles and collarspace doesn't.
Perhaps there are more fake people worldwide on Collarspace than upon Fetlife? I'm not sure but I certainly have met a lot of perfectly decent kinksters on Collarspace over the years.

As a Domina I find it pays to develop a thick skin, good boundaries, a decent amount of cynicism and a sense of humor.
I'm laughing at some pointless drip who started emailing Me on C-space and their profile was set as a Fem Domme but the person running this profile admitted that he was actually a male subbie with a mohair fetish.
Lies are the first FAIL for Moi. It doesn't take my intuition long to discover the desire, the weakness, the give-away of the fake profile.
I'm a real life, real time Domina.
The kind of woman who carries a sharp knife and handcuffs in my handbag.
As my subs will testify, my imagination is my most dangerous side.
Rest assured, fake morons of collarspace - you get no free rides with me.

I have neglected Fet life, I'm not sure why, simply that my life is very busy and so therefore online communities are using up time I really don't have.
Certainly by permitting groups of locals to be created Fetlife is enhancing the ability of people in localities to actually find each other in real life which I think is a very good thing.
However if you are one of those millions who like to create a fake profile with a fake set of preferences in order to pursue an online interest then Collarspace is evidently an excellent bet, as no doubt, many have discovered.
I have a vision of these time wasters: Someone overweight, unemployed, possibly living in mom's basement. someone who spends a lot of time on the internets living an electronic life because real life : which involves effort is too much for their courage. 
In fact creating and maintaining a collection of fake profiles is probably the limit of their creativity and courage. I don't know what gender they are, maybe it doesn't matter as they don't have a sex life anyhow.
I feel sad for some people I know who have traveled across the world to meet one of these fake people, to discover that; when confronted with the likelihood of actually meeting someone they have cultivated an online relationship with for years, that person simply vanishes.
The honest betrayed by the dishonest. Does a fake person get pleasure out of betraying and defrauding an honest person? I can only conclude that they do. Sad but true. YMMV but for me. That's why I'm always going to be a real time real life person.
There's enough fakes and liars in that limited arena. Sad but also true.
What do you think? Is Alt-sex better than either of these websites for connecting to real people? If you are a fake profiler, what kinds of pleasure does misleading someone else give you?
What happens when fake meets fake? Is it a match made in heaven or hell?