The kinky journey of life.

I spent a pleasant few days recently in the company of another Mistress. We shared our experiences of kinky slaves, pets and property. Our journey to become Dominatrix was via different paths and what featured clearly was our intention to be who WE ARE.

Not to follow some grey median set by society.

In considering my new sissy I see a person who has many roles in life and the task of integrating all of them including the desires of hir heart is an interesting and sometimes taxing task.

It's confusing being several different people - we are taught that we should be ONE person... however few people are simply one thing. Most people contain within themselves contradictions, direct oppositions, clashes and desires which are repellant at times and magnetically attractive at other times.

Each person has a different journey. Some people find fulfilment of their dreams and fantasies, others find exploring themselves a nightmare and fall prey to substances.

Some prefer to keep their real needs hidden, others are happy to play publicly and allow their friends and family to accept or reject them.

When people reject you it is actually a good thing - someone who will reject you for your personal choices which you aren't imposing on them is a person you don't need in your life.

As a man with dreadlocks once said to me - My dreads keep the kind of people away from me whom I wouldn't like anyway. 

How is your journey going? Are you always going to be an online poseur or will you have the guts to try out your dreams in real time and real life?

Will you try once and run away or keep on seeking that magical beloved - the right person/people for you?

Enjoy the journey - you will be richer at the end.

Who Is Madam X ?

Who is Madam X?

She Is: a Dominant Sadist who believes you have to be cruel to be kind.

This blog is for New Zealand residents and the entertainment of anyone else. 

Contact Madam X - you may call her Madam - on 022 317*3310 – 

NB no texts and blocked/private numbers will not be answered.

Madam X is primarily based in Otago in NZ 

She loves:

1. Sissy submission, baby nappy play, mohair bondage and saran wrap bondage.
2. Rope Bondage, handcuffs and chain and padlock bondage.
3. Straitjackets and gas masks are also good fun.
4. Corporal Punishment: I have a large arsenal of beautiful rattan canes, tawses, school straps and much more.
5. To wear a strap on or do all kinds of anal play to you. I have a fucking machine and a huge selection of dildos and other anal play instruments – all the better to fuck you with my dear!
6. CBT is cock and ball torture and as a sadist what’s not to like? I have sounds, weights, clamps, grips and more for your pleasure and pain.
7. Of course I support all Male Chastity – I have chastity devices although it is best that you purchase your own chastity device and I will fit it to you and hold the key for you. The postal service is a good one for chastity… especially if you live a few hours drive away and you don’t know when the key will arrive… 
8. I adore owning Sissy boys/gurls or forcing feminization upon you. I have a huge collection of lovely girly attire – school girl, French maid, pvc cat suit, slut, pink and white sissy and much more. Complete with makeup, wigs and boots.
9. I’m great at administering Enemas and I love Watersports – it’s a way of owning you… to let my golden nectar spill all over you.
10. I love the foot fetish guys, nothing I adore more than having my foot licked, smelled and sucked, leg and stocking and boot worship is also one of my delights.
11. I have electro-play equipment, cock stretchers, spanking horse, suspension and long term bondage equipment.
12. Pain… I am interested in hearing your ideas regarding kinds of pain you would enjoy and if I can provide this for you – hypodermics, temporary piercing, hot waxing…
13. If you have some weird fetish that you are certain no-one else will want to share with you talk to me about it…I’ve done some amazing sessions with people and I’m open to a lot of things that other Dominatrixes and working girls are not.

Note Well – I do things to YOU – you don’t get to do things to ME. If you want a woman to do things to I do have a submissive occasionally available for your pleasure.

Madam is available for 1-2 day bookings for long term bondage/sissy play/ maid service. POA

Madam X is Available by appointment 7 days a week – 9am – 10pm. My phone is not answered at other times.

Prices? Call me for more information
0223173310

Sissy Maid Rules

Here's some rules that My sissy maid and I have developed and are testing.

We did copy from some other sites, but other rules are our own.

Feel free to comment and offer advice.

Sissy Rules

· Voice Control: no speaking unless spoken to. No complaining or making statements about what sissy will or will not do or what sissy likes or does not like unless directly asked for this information by Mistress.

· If Owner/Mistress has started a conversation with slave/maid while the maid is neither completing a chore nor in hir corner, she is to kneel near but out of the way of Mistress’s movements.

· Eating and drinking is to be done standing at the kitchen sink unless Mistress gives other instructions.

· Sissy Duties: Vacuuming, dusting, sorting things out as instructed, changing beds, mopping floors, cleaning windows, laundry, sorting Mistress’s lingerie (only if specifically instructed) tidying the play room, sorting out kitchen cupboards and drawers. Cooking meals as instructed, and serving those meals to Mistress and pet. Making tea and coffee and serving those to Mistress and guests. Massaging guests as required. Body and foot massages for Mistress. Footstool for Mistress.

· Available for Mistress and guests to use in any way whatever at any time. (safeword applies)

· Time when Mistress has given no instructions is to be spent making sissy as pretty and presentable as possible to Mistress. Studying massage. Studying makeup application. Nail polish application and decoration. Sissy may sit near Mistress’s feet on a low stool while studying.

· Sissy must be in panties and a bra minimum. Unless commanded otherwise.

· Sissy must keep shaved clean under hir panties at all times.

· Sissy must curtsey when called, when owner enters the room, and upon returning from a chore.

· Unless sissy is told otherwise, sissy is to stand quietly in a designated corner upon returning from a chore. Or kneel near Mistress for further instructions.

· Sissy is to NEVER watch the news or tv, and may only use Internet to look at sissy stuff, or to study massage or cleaning methods.

· Sissy is not allowed to make decisions, or have any opinions except to agree with hir owner.

· Sissy Maid is to never leave house without permission.

· Sissy must be in full uniform including tights and headband, shoes and light makeup when serving.

· Sissy Maid is to not to speak without permission while in uniform.

· Maid is to bend over immediately and drop panties to be whipped, be it for punishment or your pleasure.

· Sissy must never talk back, argue or disagree with owner.

· Sissy owns nothing and has no rights.

· Sissy is forbidden from any non sissy related activities. (These are male type activities.)

· Any spare time can be spent in the corner, or shaving and keeping sissy fresh.
Sissy is not to masturbate without permission, and when permission is given, it must be done in a slutty humiliating sissy way that reinforces hir position.

If you are in NZ and fancy undergoing sissy maid training like this, contact Madam at her email iam.madamx at gmail.com.

MadamX Relocating to Otago

 After many productive years subduing and owning slaves in the Auckland and BOP areas, Madam is now relocating to Otago.

Madam will arrange a suitable play-space - which may take a while to build, and then she will be available to dominate, tease and torture subs, bottoms and slaves from the local area.

If you're an Otago kinkster, Madam may meet you at the local play parties or munches. She's considering joining the local BDSM groups for some socialising and fun.

Contact MadamX on 022 317 3310 for more information. 

Otago fun

 Madam now has a dedicated play room in Otago NZ. I’m thrilled to discover that there’s many delightful kinky submissive slaves in the region who are booking sessions with Me and exploring their naughty side. 

My play space is secluded, discreet parking is available nearby and many kinky needs can be taken care of there. 

Call Madam 0223173310 to discuss booking a session of bliss, bondage, pain and much more… 

Yes, Madam X is subduing slaves and humbling males in 2025

 

Madam is available to Dominate and be Worshiped 9-9pm daily in Otago by appointment at her play room full of hundreds of torture toys. Cost $350.00 per hour, longer by negotiation.

Call Madam on 0223173310

This is a New Zealand telephone number and Madam is available only to NZ residents for real time in person BDSM play.

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